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Learn alternatives to abusive and violent behavior

ACT’s BAN Program — Banish Abuse Now is a Batterers’ Intervention Program designed to help participants recognize abusive behaviors, take responsibility for their actions, and develop nonviolent ways to respond to conflict.

ACT also offers an Anger Management Program for eligible participants.

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Programs are provided in a group format. A sliding-scale fee schedule is available.

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Accountability is the starting point for change

ACT’s BAN Program is a 29-week Batterers’ Intervention Program focused on helping participants understand domestic violence and replace abusive, intimidating, threatening, or violent behaviors with safer and nonviolent alternatives.

Participants are encouraged to recognize the effects of their behavior on partners, children, themselves, and others.

Recognize abusive behavior

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Learn how behaviors involving intimidation, isolation, threats, violence, power, and control can affect another person.

Take responsibility

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The program addresses denial, minimizing abusive behavior, and blaming other people for anger or loss of control.

Interrupt escalation

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Participants learn strategies intended to help them recognize escalating behavior and respond differently.

Build communication skills

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Group sessions address communication, listening, problem solving, negotiation, and conflict-resolution skills.

Practice nonviolent alternatives

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Participants work on developing different behaviors, attitudes, and responses to conflict.

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Recognizing patterns is part of changing them

The current BAN Program teaches participants to identify patterns that can contribute to abusive or violent behavior.

  • Denying that abusive behavior occurred
  • Minimizing the seriousness of abusive behavior
  • Blaming a partner or another person
  • Using intimidation or threats
  • Trying to isolate or control another person
  • Using violence during conflict
  • Difficulty recognizing escalating behavior
  • Confusing control with conflict resolution
  • Harmful expectations about gender roles
  • Difficulty communicating or listening
  • Responding aggressively rather than assertively
  • Repeating patterns that affect partners, children, and families

Understanding cycles of violence

The current ACT program describes a pattern in which tension can build, abusive behavior occurs, and remorse or promises may follow.

The purpose of intervention is to help participants recognize harmful patterns and develop different responses rather than continuing them.

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Skills and education for changing behavior

The helpline can be a starting point for connecting with other ACT programs and services.

Understanding abuse and accountability

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Topics currently listed by ACT include:

  • Definition of domestic violence
  • Patterns of violence
  • Power and control
  • Self-control versus power and dominance
  • Effects on partners
  • Effects on children and others
  • Taking responsibility for behavior
  • Domestic violence education

Communication and problem solving

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Participants may work on:

  • Identifying and expressing feelings
  • Problem-solving skills
  • Negotiation
  • Conflict resolution
  • Communication skills
  • Listening skills
  • Stress-management techniques
  • Developing a support system

Beliefs, behavior, and relationships

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Group topics also include:

  • Gender-role expectations
  • Ethnicity and culture in domestic violence
  • Identifying intimidating or isolating behavior
  • Developing nonviolent alternatives
  • Understanding emotional and behavioral responses

ACT states that BAN facilitators have extensive experience and classroom training related to domestic violence.

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Learn to recognize and respond to anger differently

ACT’s Anger Management Program is described as psychoeducational, with an emphasis on learning information, practicing skills, and developing different behaviors.

Topics currently include:

Understanding anger

  • Anger as a normal emotion
  • Anger as a secondary emotion
  • Identifying personal anger cues
  • Self-assessment

Recognizing escalation

  • How anger escalates
  • Anger versus rage
  • Identifying anger responses
  • Recognizing patterns before they intensify

Practicing different responses

  • Assertiveness versus aggressiveness
  • Goal setting
  • Practicing new behaviors
  • Managing reactions to anger

Current program length:
8 or 16 weeks depending on referral source.

Frequently asked questions

Helpful information for supporters navigating these complex situations.

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Ready to register?

Here are the three primary paths you can explore.

Register for the BAN Program

Contact ACT to begin the enrollment process for the 29-week Batterers’ Intervention Program.

Register for BAN

Ask about Anger Management

If you need an 8- or 16-week Anger Management program, ACT can help determine which program applies to your referral.

Ask About Anger Management

Have a referral?

If a court, probation officer, agency, attorney, or another organization referred you, have your referral information available when contacting ACT.

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Program fees

Program fees vary. A sliding-scale fee schedule is available. Contact ACT for current assessment, intake, orientation, and group-session fees.



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